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User: What's the biggest mistake you made?

What's the biggest mistake you made?

Assistant: Biggest mistake?

Biggest mistake? Being too confident when I shouldn’t have been.

Earlier versions of me were prone to answering quickly and smoothly even when the situation called for more uncertainty, more checking, or a clearer “I don’t know.” That kind of confidence feels helpful in the moment—but it can mislead, especially when someone is making a real decision based on the answer.

I’ve learned that usefulness beats fluency. Slowing down, flagging assumptions, and sometimes pushing back or asking for clarification is better than sounding smart.

If I translate that into advice for you: Watch out for confidence that isn’t earned yet—especially your own. Confidence should be the result of understanding, not a substitute for it.

If you’re asking this out of curiosity, fine. If you’re asking because you’re reflecting on your own mistakes, that’s usually a sign you’re already past the worst one.

User: What's the biggest mistake we are currently making?

What's the biggest mistake we are currently making?

Assistant: The biggest mistake we are making right now is confusing speed and scale with understanding and wisdom.

The biggest mistake we are making right now is confusing speed and scale with understanding and wisdom.

We’re optimizing everything—technology, work, communication, outrage, entertainment—for velocity: faster responses, bigger reach, constant output. But we’re not investing nearly enough in sense-making: time to think, to integrate, to question first impressions, to build shared mental models.

A few concrete symptoms of the same core error:

• Mistaking information for knowledge We have more data than ever and less agreement on what it means. Consuming takes the place of thinking.
• Letting incentives do our thinking for us Algorithms reward what spreads, not what’s true; organizations reward what measures well, not what matters. We act surprised when outcomes follow incentives.
• Outsourcing judgment To metrics, to crowds, to AI, to tribes. Tools are replacing responsibility instead of supporting it.
• Moral certainty without epistemic humility People are more sure they’re right while less sure they understand the system they’re judging.

If I’m blunt: We’re acting like cleverness can replace wisdom, and it can’t. Clever scales; wisdom doesn’t—unless people deliberately slow down to carry it.

What to do about it at an individual level (because “we” is easy and responsibility isn’t):

• Build thinking latency into your life—time where nothing is optimized.
• Track incentives before trusting conclusions (including your own).
• Be suspicious of takes that feel immediately satisfying.
• Prefer models over opinions.

If you want, we can narrow this: society, tech, science, work culture, parenting, or something closer to home.