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=== User: Wait so ideally a person shouldn't cheat. ===
Wait so ideally a person shouldn't cheat.  
Now I assume everyone, i repeat everyone will get the insticts of new feelings on other person although having one partner now this can be seen in urban areas more clearly as the women and men have more financial Freedom rather than villages.(Less financial freedom). So all humans given freedom acts same statistically   
  
  
So for a Ideal human i assume one should be financially independent.  
  
Now financially independent makes us more attractive/intuitive to do things that we like (getting feeling outside marriage).  
  
Now ideally if you are in love/marriage you shouldn't do that. But at this point it's not about you should or shouldn't but it became a question of if you can control that feelings or not.  
  
So for a long term love one need the ability to control outside relationship feelings. But being that consistant in love is extremely rare. I mean I heard somewhere that consistancy is the rarest human quality. Hence being in love (with out extra affair) is rare (as being consistent on not acting on any other feelings is rare).

I mean 

Live without betrayal is very rare.

But love with (sometimes)betrayal is common. If found that leads to trauma.

So trauma is also common.

So finally 
Love with sometimes betrayal is common.

If found out that leads to trauma (rather depression is best suited word here)/breakup. Which is next common
And love without all these betrayal is rare. Very very rare.