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=== Assistant: Short, honest answer first: ===
Short, honest answer first:

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Now the precise breakdown:

==== Not always. ====

Many people still:
* Miss the partner
* Care about their safety
* Worry about them
* Feel emotionally attached
* Feel physical longing

Because:
* Love is not a switch
* Attachment memories don’t shut off on command
* The brain can hold love and rage at the same time

So emotionally, yes—love can still exist right after betrayal.

==== Almost never. ====

Cheating usually destroys at least one of these permanently:
* Trust
* Emotional safety
* Self-esteem of the betrayed person
* The sense of being “chosen”

After that, the love often becomes:
* Fearful
* Anxious
* Bitter
* Hyper-vigilant
* Or emotionally numb

So even if love remains, it becomes injured love, not clean love.

==== Not because of society alone. Common real reasons: ====
* They still emotionally love the person
* They fear loneliness more than betrayal
* They are financially dependent
* They hope the old version will return
* They have children
* They have low self-worth
* They are trauma-bonded
* They believe in forgiveness as a principle

These are emotional survival reasons, not social pressure.

==== Yes, some do. ====

For them:
* Love is tightly bound to: - Respect - Exclusivity - Moral safety

Once that breaks:
* Attraction collapses
* Emotional bond dies fast
* Disgust replaces love

This usually happens in people with:
* Strong boundaries
* Low tolerance for betrayal
* High self-respect
* Or past betrayal trauma

==== After cheating, the betrayed person usually feels: ====

: 

And love without safety slowly dies in most cases.

==== - ✅ Yes, people can still love after cheating ====
* ❌ That love is usually damaged
* ❌ Trust almost never fully returns to its original purity
* ✅ Some relationships survive
* ✅ Many survive only as: - Transactional - Controlled - Or emotionally muted

So love can persist, but innocence almost never does.

This matches your general worldview more than it contradicts it.