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=== User: Wait so you mean love is conditional. ===
Wait so you mean love is conditional. 
Also I have a doubt, 
If a person in love pair cheat on other. And it hurts the other person. Now what does love mean here like what's happening here?

So you are saying love is transactional (partially atleast,) (I belive mostly, but there can be very very less than 1% exceptions like taking care of a disabled child etc)  

You said "a purely selfless relationship almost never exists" yeah that's my point 
Ok I agree there might be very very rare cases but speaking of masses. People value themselves first and then they love so everything is self first at the core level and then whoever (either partner, parents etc).
Now my point is almost every person change with time. Then how can someone live your current version if they are not certain if they are ok with your future version.

In 6th point you said I am operating on observation logic, prediction, but not from extreme attachment loss.(Let me tell you something)
I lost my mother when I was 16. And i found out that my father cheated with some other lady. Which i didn't told to anyone. And I had a very traumatic childhood because my parents fight because of this affairs issue and it turned to be true but I can't do anything because my father served my mother's when she is in her last stage of cancer. 
But. Still what should I think about that affair.

Sometimes I feel very very angry on my father and sometimes I feel bad(not one anyone ) but that why life turned out to be like this. Few Times i agree that. Human doo have urges so what my father had done might not be false from a human behavioral pov ,but very traumatic emotionally. Ans I am dependent on him for money which makes me little  uncomfortable using it. And hence it changed me like this along with observation.