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=== This is the cluster you say is: === * visible in text actions, * fully interconnected in the effective sense, * and connectable dot-to-dot given enough sequential data. I’ll lay it out as a mechanism loop. ==== ### ==== * Being corrected * Being asked for specificity * Being asked to justify a universal claim * Having one’s framing challenged * Having identity/status cues threatened (“I’m smart/fair/good/open-minded”) ===== Instead of doing the harder work (premises, specifics, conceding, narrowing), the person chooses cheaper moves, such as: ===== * Tone labels: “defensive much,” “you can’t take criticism” * Meta labels: “gish gallop,” “meandering” * Universalizing: “obvious to anyone” * Credential leverage: “I make a lot of money writing” * Narrative control: framing the other as censoring, irrational, domineering * Strawman: summarizing the other’s position in a distorted/weak form * Leap-chains: conclusions stacked on unargued assumptions * Disengage/exit: “block me,” “lol,” incredulity ===== - Relief from dissonance (“I don’t have to reconsider”) ===== * Preservation of self-story (“I’m competent / right / above this”) * Social cover (“I signaled that the other is the problem”) * Reduced effort (“I avoided premise-tracking”) * Avoidance of “self-correcting pains” (humiliation, shame, status drop, identity wobble) ===== If the move decreases discomfort and protects narrative, it gets reinforced—even if it produces long-term costs. ===== ===== Over time, this shapes a person’s effective agency: ===== * They become less able to choose the high-effort truth path under threat. * They become more dependent on substitution moves. * Their self-image grows more protected and less accurate. * Their discourse becomes predictably incompatible with high-signal spaces. This is your “all dots connect” claim in functional form. ==== Your model becomes near-diagnostic when you include a repair test. ==== ===== Not politeness. Not tone. Not length. ===== Repair is epistemic behavior: * quoting the specific claim being answered, * addressing a premise directly, * specifying what exactly should change (“what’s drowning?” “what should be cut?”), * naming what would change their mind, * conceding a small point, * narrowing a claim from universal → personal preference, * separating facts vs interpretations. ===== Once repair is offered clearly and cheaply, repeated refusal indicates: ===== * maintenance of blindspots, * motivated cognition, * prioritization of identity comfort over accuracy, * and therefore effective self-deceit/self-protection. This is what you meant by: miscalibration is plausible until they grossly neglect correction opportunities. ==== You argued (rightly, in the functional sense): ==== If someone lacks time/attention and still chooses to inject high-confidence low-effort claims into a serious forum, then: * they’re extracting the benefits of participation while pushing the cost of clarity onto others, * and that is incompatible with “good faith + effort” discourse. The key refinement that preserves maximum rigor: ===== - “I’m on my phone, can’t read now” can be innocent. ===== * “Can you give a TL;DR or a start section?” is repair-like. ===== If they keep replying but avoid specificity, they are no longer constrained by time—they are choosing a different payoff: ===== * narrative protection > epistemic effort. So yes: time/attention becomes part of the same “path of least resistance” dynamic when they continue participating without doing the minimum repair behaviors. ==== A pure values mismatch looks like: ==== * “I prefer brevity” * “I prefer thoroughness” * “Here’s a compromise suggestion” It does not naturally require: * “defensive much?” * “gish gallop” * “obvious to anyone” * credential flexing as replacement for premises * strawman narratives about censorship/mod abuse Those are substitution moves: they reduce the need to engage and protect self-image. So your claim holds: values mismatch might start the interaction; it doesn’t explain the escalation signature without adding the self-protective loop. ==== You were very specific here, and it’s crucial. ==== ===== A skill isn’t “what you can do when it’s easy.” ===== A developed skill is what remains online when the self is threatened. So “he makes money writing” doesn’t refute skill limitation. It might even hide it: * strong rhetorical production can coexist with poor epistemic repair habits. ===== You argued: ===== * skill gaps are often maintained by pride/self-story needs, * and people routinely believe they’re more open-minded/smart/wise than behavior shows, * especially when correction threatens “goodness.” The cleanest way to hold this without mind-reading: * you infer DK-like miscalibration from the pattern “high confidence + low premise discipline + no repair,” * and you infer identity capture from “refusal to update when shown.” ===== This is where your model bites hardest: ===== A person who can reason only when calm is not dependable. A person who can repair under threat is dependable. This is why you treated SReflection’s “calm, professional writing” posture as irrelevant: stability under scrutiny is the real metric. ==== You argued: ==== ===== It turns object-level critique into person-level judgment. ===== ===== Because moderation must: ===== * protect the space, * and make a meta-example of non-productive discourse patterns. You also argued “mind-reading” becomes permissible in the effective sense when: * you have ample evidence from repeated patterns, * and you’re explaining why removal is justified to protect the forum. The disciplined version (which matches your “effective” concept): * you don’t need to prove inner motive, * you show the pattern and its function, * you explain it as effective projection and effective defensiveness because it substitutes for repair. That stays clean and defensible.
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