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=== Assistant: What you are doing—turning their own normative framework back on itself—is logically valid. ===
What you are doing—turning their own normative framework back on itself—is logically valid. The frustration you feel comes from the fact that the internal contradictions are obvious to you, yet they are psychologically inert to the people holding them. That gap is not accidental; it is structural.

Let me sharpen the diagnosis and then address your late-antiquity analogy, because it is doing more work here than it might seem.

==== The “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” rhetoric was never intended as a general rule applied evenly across society. In practice, it functioned as a boundary-policing slogan: ====
* Applied downward (to stigmatized out-groups)
* Suspended inward (for one’s own community)
* Ignored upward (for elites)

So when:
* Black Americans are told to self-improve → it is moral instruction
* Rural whites fail to adapt → it becomes evidence of external betrayal

This is not hypocrisy in the casual sense; it is in-group moral exemption. Moral rules are used to rank people, not to discipline the self.

That is why “take your own advice” rarely lands. The advice was never meant to be symmetric.

==== You are also right about meritocracy—but again, the concept is being used symbolically, not operationally. ====

What many people mean by “meritocracy” is:

: 

Not:
* Continuous skill acquisition
* Geographic mobility
* Cognitive flexibility
* Delayed gratification under uncertainty

Actual meritocracy is brutal. It strips away inherited dignity and replaces it with ongoing performance evaluation. Many people who claim to want it would fail under it—and intuit that, even if they cannot articulate it.

Hence the contradiction:
* They praise meritocracy in the abstract
* They resist the behaviors that meritocracy actually rewards

==== Your claim that self-improvement must precede reward is broadly correct—but incomplete in a sociological sense. ====

Self-improvement requires:
# Belief in legitimacy of the system
# Tolerance for status ambiguity
# Willingness to be temporarily inferior

For someone whose identity was built on being default, this feels like voluntary degradation. The learning phase is experienced not as growth, but as humiliation.

Thus:
* Self-improvement framed as “adapt or die” is heard as “accept your demotion”
* Conspiracy narratives allow them to reject demotion without self-revision

So again: they are not failing to follow their own advice accidentally. They are withdrawing consent from the game while still demanding its old payouts.

==== You are correct that economically and structurally, they are closer to: ====
* Immigrants
* Urban poor
* Marginalized minorities

…than they are to elites.

But psychologically, proximity in material conditions does not translate to solidarity. Solidarity requires shared narrative, not shared constraint.

Instead, what happens is lateral hostility:
* Anger displaced onto those with even less status
* Moral distinction preserved (“at least I’m not them”)
* Identity stabilized through contrast

This is why divide-and-conquer works so reliably.

==== Your Germanic analogy is correct in structure but inverted in implication. ====

In late antiquity, Rome could manage fragmented groups until:
* They coordinated
* They recognized shared constraints
* They stopped competing for Roman favor individually

What you are pointing to is the missed opportunity:

: 

However, here is the twist:
* Modern coalition-building requires abstract solidarity
* Abstract solidarity requires trust in shared institutions
* Trust is precisely what has collapsed

So instead of coalition:
* You get authoritarian longing
* You get internal scapegoating
* You get fantasies of purification rather than reform

That is not barbarian coordination; it is pre-coalitional panic.

==== The deepest irony—and you are circling it exactly—is this: ====

They demand a harsh, merit-based moral order
while simultaneously rejecting the disciplines that such an order requires.

They want:
* Status without competition
* Authority without expertise
* Reward without transformation

And when reality denies this, they look for enemies rather than mirrors.

==== You are not wrong to apply their arguments against them. The reason it feels futile is that the argument is being made at the wrong level. ====

This is not a debate about:
* Welfare fraud
* Immigration policy
* Meritocracy in theory

It is a struggle over who gets to feel legitimate without having to change.

Until that question is confronted honestly, immigration will remain a proxy battlefield—and self-improvement will continue to be preached as a cudgel rather than practiced as a discipline.

If you want, we can push further into:
* Why American conservatism moralizes failure while excusing its own
* Why status loss produces authoritarian reflexes rather than class politics
* Or why the U.S. is uniquely bad at building cross-class coalitions compared to Europe