Editing How to Act Normal Around Your Crush (section)

== Maintain Confident and Relaxed Body Language ==
Your body language often speaks louder than words. When you appear calm and confident, both you ''and'' your crush will feel more at ease. Here’s how to use your body language to your advantage:

* '''Use an open posture.''' Keep your stance relaxed and inviting. For example, stand or sit with '''uncrossed arms and relaxed shoulders''', and face your crush directly to show you’re engaged (25 Great Secrets to Get Comfortable Around Your Crush - HeartMush) (29 Tips to Talk to Your Crush (Without The Awkwardness!)). An open posture makes you look comfortable and interested, whereas folding your arms or turning away can signal discomfort or disinterest.
* '''Make warm eye contact and smile.''' A genuine smile and friendly eye contact go a long way. Looking them in the eyes shows you’re paying attention and care about what they’re saying (29 Tips to Talk to Your Crush (Without The Awkwardness!)). Just avoid overdoing it – you don’t want to stare intensely or, on the flip side, look away nervously the whole time. Aim to meet their eyes naturally during conversation and smile when it feels right, as this shows warmth and confidence.
* '''Keep your movements calm (and avoid fidgeting).''' It’s normal to feel jittery inside, but try not to let it show in constant fidgeting. Avoid habits like tapping your feet, biting your nails, or playing with your hair or phone, which can make your nervousness obvious. If you catch yourself getting tense, take a slow breath, relax your shoulders, and steady your hands at your sides or gently on your lap. This composed posture not only makes you appear more confident but can actually ''help you feel'' calmer too.
* '''Mirror them ''subtly''.''' People naturally mirror those they feel comfortable with, and you can use a bit of this to build rapport. For instance, if your crush is sitting back relaxed, you might also lean back slightly; if they use a lot of hand gestures, you can nod and use gentle gestures as well. Subtle mirroring of someone’s body language can create a sense of connection (29 Tips to Talk to Your Crush (Without The Awkwardness!)) – it signals “we’re on the same wavelength.” Just keep it light and natural (don’t copy every move). A little goes a long way, and it should never feel forced.